Try this: Ask 2 or 3 of your friends what chastity is. You might get some of the answers I have: "I know this girl named Chastity," or "Is it a belt or
something?"
Why are we all so clueless?
It's because it's such a radical idea it's taken practically all of human history to figure it out.
Our parents, whether they were hippies or yuppies, thought it was so old-fashioned it didn't belong anywhere but in the baby name books. Their parents thought it was a repressive duty (as all their parents did going a looooong way back).
How did we get so lucky to live in a time where people are realizing the truth?
We are the lucky ones who are starting to see that chastity makes the whole world better. I'm not kidding. It's the radical idea that sex is not something so bad that we shouldn't talk about it in polite company (that's what Grandma thought), or something so casual that you could substitute it for a handshake (that's what some of our Dad's friends thought once).
It's something so totally awesome and precious that we should save it for one person for the rest of our lives. That's why marriage was invented! Marriage protects the powerful gift of sex so that I don't give away that ultimate gift to someone who would leave me. It protects the baby who might come from that gift (bonus double gift jackpot!) by giving him or her two parents who will be there for life.
Chastity means you love sex.
It means every time I give that gift of myself to my spouse I am saying, "I do" all over again. And every time I don't give it to someone else before my spouse, I'm practicing for the "I do" that will come later.
Great, right?
I'm proud to say that I love sex, especially since I have a lifetime to get it perfect (and plan to practice as often as possible) with my spouse, the one I'm committed to for life. Welcome to the revolution. You guys, this message will change the world!