Because You’re Worth Having Your Wedding Night Be Special
A virgin is someone who has never had sexual intercourse. A virgin can be a guy or a girl. Your virginity is a gift you can give to only one person. It cannot be taken from you. You are a valuable gift worth waiting for.
Ask yourself this question: Do you want your future husband or wife to save sex for you? Of course you do! We all dream about that one person who will love us completely and who will inspire us to do the same. Saving yourself for marriage is one of the best wedding gifts you can give to each other! Be proud of it!
Because You Want to Have a Lasting Marriage
Have you ever stuck duct tape to your arm and ripped it off? Ouch! It hurts! And not only that—the next time, that duct tape just doesn’t stick like it did before. Sex is the same way. The strongest bond happens the first time and breaking that tight hold would make it harder to bond again later.
During sex, we release hormones that create a powerful emotional attachment designed to give us a stronger marriage. That way, when the other purpose of sex comes along - a baby - that child has the best chance of growing up with both a mom and a dad who are securely bonded and want to be around each other.